How to propose to your partner?

Photographing proposals is among my favorite types of sessions to be part of. This proposal also fell on the first snow of the year! What amazing timing. And I was able to use that occurrence to pad out my story. Usually, when someone reaches out to tell me that they are proposing to their partner, the plan is that I am hidden in plain sight and wait for the moment to happen before popping out and letting the couple see me. BUT with this session, we had to do things a bit differently. Since I couldn't really hide out anywhere at the winery. So I came up with the plan of acting like the winery's social media staff. That way, it's less weird for me to be walking around with a camera. As soon as the couple parked, I started talking around the winery and photographing the first day of snow. When they got closer, I asked them if they wouldn't mind standing in for a photo. I directed them to a specific spot and asked them to pose a few different ways. Then I signaledto make it happen!

Check out the photos of everything unfolding below! I'll also include some tips if you are considering proposing to your partner!

A short how-to guide on proposing to your partner:

1. Think about your partner:

   - The best proposal ideas are rooted in who you and your partner are. Take in account who your partner is and what they love. Are they introverted? Maybe somewhere secluded would be best. Are they into big gestures? Plan something more dynamic, book their favorite restaurant. Invite their closest friends, make it an event.

   
   

2. Choose the right time:

   - If you're asking when to propose, the answer is simple. Think about a meaningful date, a favorite season, or a moment you think would feel right. Often, the most intentional makes the proposal more special.

3. Pick a meaningful location:

   - Whether it's a favorite part of the city, a favorite restaurant, or even a cozy at-home moment. There are SO many places that you can choose. You just have to think about what works best for you and your partner.

4. Plan the moment (but leave room for spontaneity)

   - Think of this as a loose proposal checklist. What you'll say, where you'll stand and how you'll ask. Then let the rest unfold naturally. Often, in the heat of the moment, most people black out from excitement, and only half of what goes as planned. And that is entirely okay.

If you are looking for a photographer to photograph your surprise proposal make sure you reach out! I can also help you come up with some ideas if you need them.